Looking for a calibration tool to understand how your people are doing?
I've watched leaders transform their relationships with their teams by asking these five simple questions on a regular cadence. By including personal life, you manage the whole person, not just their work. This encourages transparency and builds trust.
Invite them to imagine themselves five years in the future. Where do they live? What does their relationship look like? What kind of energizing, inspiring work are they doing? Who do they work with? What’s their financial situation?
Push them to get creative and ambitious. Anything is possible.
You only need to ask this the first time. It anchors everything that follows.
Rate each question 1–5:
Choose the lowest score and unpack it by answering,
What would get this to the next level?
If it's a 2, what would get it to a 3? Commit to a next action with a date.
When someone rates their personal life lowest, you can unpack it further. Ask them to rate these dimensions:
Again, choose the lowest score and answer, what would get it to the next level?